We are breathing in such a global moral scenario، in which From World Health Organization experts to human and women's rights activists, and from nearly 200 nation-states to major institutions of sociology, society and ethics, everyone has agreed that it is permissible that a girl who is in her teens, from the age of thirteen to nineteen, can have all kinds of illicit sex, ie having relationship without marriage , resulting a child and then raising this child alone, but in no country parents can be allowed legally arrange the marriage of this girl.
If a girl starts living with someone in a "developed" country on her own without getting married and in the meanwhile she carries the burden of having an illegitimate child, then in the eyes of any Western country or Westernized intellectual of the world, that girl and that man (having relationship with her) don't deserve any kind of punishment,
On the contrary, governments have provided countless services to "facilitate" this "illegitimate" relationship of this girl.
Government and non-government organizations are working to make girls aware of the psychological and physical complications of falling in love during "teenage". First, these young couples are given information about safe sex, then they are educated in detail about contraceptive pills to avoid to an unexpected birth as a result of sexual intercourse during the emotionally overwhelmed moments.
A network of guidance and counseling services has been set up to protect the mental health of such girls, because due to the short duration of these "illicit" relationships, teenage girls suffer from a range of psychological problems, ranging from self-harm, depression and anxiety to the suicide.
The main reason for the instability of these relationships without marriage is often blamed on the offspring, which arises in this emotionally overwhelmed phase of the relationship.
If the couple accepts it happily as a sign of their love, life will be happier for a few more months or years, otherwise the efforts to get rid of the baby start from the first day of getting the news of pregnancy, that's why
a network of "abortion" services has also been set up to make this "murder" easier.
Overwhelmed by the mother's natural feelings of compassion, if a girl intends to raise her "illegitimate" child alone, all the anger of the infidelity of the deceitful lover falls on this innocent child.
In all the civilized western countries of the world, the highest rate of child abuse is found in unmarried teenage mothers.
The future of children born as a result of such "illicit relationships" depends on when will their father, mother or both leave them, and put their arms on the shoulders of their next partners.
In these circumstances, at whose mercy will this innocent be? Since the state has protected the entire process of the birth of this "illegitimate child", a network of innumerable institutions has been set up for the upbringing of the child born as a result of this process, these are called Shelters, Foster Homes or Abandoned Baby Homes.
The entire state, civil society, human rights and women's rights watchdogs, all diligently arrange for the provision of all the services that are required to remove the "hurdles" and "problems" created during the illegitimate relationships of these teenage boys and girls,to make a smoother way for continuing it.
But no person or organization seems to be discussing on ethics, society, environment and family values of such relationships. The main reason for this is that the whole building of relationships in Western civilization is based on the principle that "every physical relationship is respectable, honorable and legal that comes into being by the will and intention of both". even if this relationship is establish between a girl and a boy of the ten years old or established between an old man and a woman of seventy years. This relationship is not a crime in any secular, democratic and liberal society.
That is why any complications that arise as a result of this process are called hazards and preventing or dealing with their effects is also considered "legal".
The statistics of young girls having births of offspring without getting married are so high and alarming that the number of such mothers seems to be equal to the population of a small continent.
According to the Gallup World Poll, there are currently 13 out of every 100 young girls in the world, including all continents, who have children born as a result of these illicit relationships and their "father" left them and the poor mothers are raising them alone.
These figures are from 140 countries. In all of these continents, the United States and Canada alone account for 19% of having such "unmarried mothers."
In South American countries, that number is even more alarming, at 30 percent. That is, every third young girl is having such a child,and she is raising it. It is also common in many countries to not write the father's name in the "birth certificate".
This terrible trend is growing all over the world. According to the Child Trend Data Bank, one of the largest research data on unmarried mothers in the United States, the number of unmarried mothers in the United States was 5 percent in 1960, up from 5 percent in 1995 the number rose to 33%, and in 2008 it rose to 41%. Figures for the next 12 years are not available yet, but it is estimated that every second woman in the United States is raising an "illegitimate" child.
There is no age restriction in these civilized countries for having illicit relations of one's own free will. A 60-year-old man can live with a 14-year-old girl according to her wishes and have children without marriage.
If a 70-year-old man from a showbiz or fashion industry does that, it becomes a thrilling news in every newspaper and channel in the world. To justify all this "business of emotion", this testimony of a teenage girl between the ages of thirteen to nineteen is enough that "I am doing all this of my own free will."
But all the countries of the world, and even the doctors of the World Health Organization, are united and agree that parents can't arrange the marriage of their minor girl, even if it is according to her wishes. but on other hands same minor girl can have an illegitimate child by having love relationship without marriage with an adult, but if that girl goes to a court or church to get married with that adult, she will be arrested.
This is the world that likes to eat fruit that is cluttered with dirt and filth and hates pure fruit of marriage.
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